Family EE/EHE Stories

[a few thoughts]

 

          My belief is most people would be very surprised just how many people in their own families and among their other close familiars have had potentially transformative spiritual experiences.  There are a number of reasons I'm inclined to think this way:

  • A number of surveys over the last couple of decades indicate we have strong spiritual inclinations in the USA and in fact over nearly all the world and that this is growing rapidly.  So consciously or unconsciously, we are largely open to such experiences.  Not, however, that you have to be "open" or to have imagined such a possibility for them to occur.  But if one is closed off from them because of attitude or belief, they are less likely to draw them into their lives and more likely either to dismiss or mis-interpret them when they do occur.  But no one under any conditions is immune from them! And in fact Abraham Maslow in his research with "peak experiences" discovered the more he and his grad students studied them, talked about them, dwelled on them, the more they themselves tended to have such experiences.  [Suggested reading:  Abraham Maslow, Dannion Brinkley and Howard Storm.]

  • Through large numbers of books, CDs, websites, popular TV and radio programs, conferences and workshops, community gatherings, membership organizations, we observe the obvious:  people are opening up and sharing their stories.  This trend has no historical precedent.  Until very recently, almost no one dared to talk about their experiences of this nature, at least not in much of Western society within the last several score years.  Now that science and medicine openly acknowledge and study near-death and out-of-body experiences, after-death communications, and the like, this has become an important avenue of healing and insight for all of us, and this interest is abundantly evident through many media. [See recommended booklist.]

  • My own very ordinary, middleclass, American family!!  ;-D  I just had no inkling until the past several years this was the case!  It really shifts something in you when you begin to put all these different people's stories into one context, such as your family.  I found it healing and wholeness-making not only for myself but within my family itself.  As other people come forward with their own observations along these lines, I hope to see this become a major topic of discussion. [The Breadcrumb Trail ..  . can give you a feeling for how this kind of personal discovery can unfold and enrich your life immeasurably in the process.]

          With just a little earnest searching, my guess is almost everyone will make a similarly stunning personal discovery within hir own family.  Always bear in mind with any of these, whether your EEs/EHEs or those of someone else,  what makes these events so valuable is not the stories themselves, but what happens as a result of the experiences to those who had them and, not so surprisingly, to those who experience them secondhand--readers, audience, etc.  How does it in fact change one's life?

          And harking back to literature-class days, this is true for any adventure:  how were the people involved in the fiction and poetry you read changed, or were they?  Whether fictitious or true, what have you read or come across in other ways -- other people's stories -- that made a  difference in your life?   There probably would not be any literature, any art even, if these did not continually inspire, impact, stir up powerful feelings, inner changes, new ideas for those who are later exposed to them.  

          In the case of these EEs/EHEs, keep in mind the fact that there is a recognized, even celebrated profile of aftereffects -- values and behaviors -- that experiencers naturally tend to manifest or live out of afterwards.  This very characteristic also is apparent in people who have simply been exposed to others' spiritually transformative stories.  Add to this what Ken Ring noticed in his classes, that mere exposure to such stories resulted in many non-experiencers' lives also shifting to mirror more of these so-called aftereffects.  He describes this "contagious" phenomenon as not unlike a benign virus.   The research of  parapsychologist, R. A. McConnell [see Statistics page for citing the article] certainly validates this 'viral' effect.  He said "71% of ... respondents .. said that psychic effects observed in themselves or in persons close to them have contributed significantly to their belief in ESP."  

 

 

Wishing you fruitful , healing, thrilling

adventures and discoveries!

 

 

Here are a few of my family-related stories:

 

 

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