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    The following article was not explicitly about EHE Study Groups, and yet much if not all the article was to me as if the author, Rhea A. White, was fully engaged in a kind of processing and conversing within and with such a group.  I have added comments within that material to emphasize White's EHE study group conceptualization just under the surface.  Most but not all of the article is relevant, and what you see here is all I have or know of online at the moment.  The full reference is given at the bottom of this page.

     Here are White's own introductory remarks from her Journal, EHE:  This paper  was given at the 1993 conference of the Academy of Religion and Psychical Research which was devoted to "Exceptional Human Experiences:  Validation, Integration, Application."  I tried to show why telling others about our exceptional experiences and acting on them not only was necessary to integrate the experiences but to increase our understanding of them, which is especially important for those who are studying EHEs.  Telling and living our EHEs is also contagious and can inspire others to share their EHEs or may even play a role in inducing EHEs in others.  Only by speaking out about and living from our EHEs can we alter the social fabric of reality, thus making society more open and accepting of exceptional experience and more knowledgeable about the nature and importance of EHEs. 

 

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           Rhea White quotes Tom Driver [1991], who talks about "confessional mode," "rituals as pathways," and "confessional performances."  He offers a specially powerful perspective of "ritualizing as the making of these paths for behavior to follow."  Most of these ideas could be effectively explored or applied within a study group focused on EHEs -- their significance in our lives and ways to help each other to fully potentiate them, meaning to bring to fruition their gifts.  We do this through  what White calls the EHE Process.  She suggests that .. 

     ..  EHEs provide the nucleus for developing a personal ritual, a way to create a path one can follow in living one's life, a path that is both deeply satisfying and a source of further revelation.  Driver says that the societal benefits of ritual are "order, community, and transformation."  ... [These] are the benefits of the EHEs that spearhead one's life .... [They are] a means of connecting with one's self, or of uniting one's many selves. ... [They connect] us to others, to our community, and ultimately, to the planet. ... [And] when a sufficient number of people experience those inner/outer connections, we will have access to what we need to save the planet*, which corresponds to Driver's transformation.

     Driver next discusses ritual as a performance, an acting out or living out.  this corresponds to what I have said about EHEs revealing one's path in life embodied in a project of transcendence.  ...  Driver has sharpened my thinking on these matters.  He refers to "confessional performances," which are primarily concerned with "identity and exposure," or owning EHEs, in the special case in which we are interested.  He also notes that "mystery and awesomeness accompany self-revelation," and that "the confessional mode always has something of a religious quality, even though many specific instances of it have nothing overt to do with religious traditions."

     This is a a bombshell for me.  It suggests that coming out has religious overtones -- mystery and awe -- and puts one in touch with everything else.  What we must do is come out as regards EHEs!  And this coming out itself has potential as an EHE.  If we own them, they will guide others as well as ourselves, or rather, as Driver says, we must not only "show and tell" but "do and show."

     He says the confessional mode has to to with faith and it "needs a language capable of saying, 'I believe.  Help my unbelief'."  He quotes William Cantwell Smith, who says faith "is an orientation of the personality, to oneself, to one's neighbor, to the universe; a total response; a way of seeing whatever one sees and of handling whatever one handles; a capacity to live at a more than mundane level; to see, to feel, to act in terms of a transcendent dimension.  Belief, on the other hand is the holding of certain ideas."

          ...  Much further into this powerful and lengthy article, and more to the point about EHE study groups and their potential for helping our collective transcendence that could indeed save our planet and ourselves from our not-knowing, White continues the discussion about the necessity to 'transcend' the constricted and even scientifically recognized inaccurate and incomplete idea of the seemingly "objective" / "out there" as the pure domain of what it means to engage in the rigorous discipline of [Western] Science.  She continues:

[If] we could conceptualize our activity as being both inside, outside, as well as the experiment itself, then we could widen the bridge between mind and matter as we experience it.  Or, as Stephanie Demetrakopoulos puts it:  "The Western polarization of the body and the soul can be softened and modified."  The eventual goal of course, would be to do and show and know that subjective and objective are one and the same.  I suggest that what would be experienced in this act of transcendence, which in effect is an awareness of becoming more than we were when we began, is the existence of a dynamic, which I have symbolized as a catapult.  Driver states:  "Confession always changes the relation between self and world.  The recognition of movement in the self enables, at a certain point, discernment of a dynamic in the world.  In the awareness of a correlation between dynamic self and dynamic world, the ethical mode of performance is born."

     He points out that "confessional performance is an early, necessary step in the liberation of any oppressed people."  and we, dear people, in a very real sense are an oppressed group. [She is speaking to and of parapsychologists, of whom many, like White, are themselves EHEers who got into the field to better understand their own such experiences.]  People who have had exceptional human experiences and even those who purport to study them -- even if they do it in the most correct, conservative, and pristinely objective way possible -- are looked on by many as outcasts.  As the members of one oppressed group, we, on the other hand, have much to gain if instead of tacitly or openly siding with our oppressors, we were to stand with our exceptional experiences, privileging them wherever possible.  We must perform, as Driver puts it, "acts in which people openly proclaim their identity as members of an oppressed group, and confess loyalty to the cause of liberation.  The liberating power they call upon ... requires a manifestation of a people's loyalty, their willingness to suffer for the cause of freedom, and their expectation that deliverance will come."

     Liberation, that is, acceptance, is what all ... who have exceptional human experiences want.  The process, I submit, starts with themselves.  One has to be loyal to, come down upon the side of, that which requires liberation.  there is nothing to lose!  For as the oppressed we are already outside the pale.  To be exceptional and not own it is to be nowhere.  One conforms to a dead reality that one's very experience belies.  

          White then gives a brilliant, succinct, totally 'nekkid' description of how, sadly,  parapsychology has, all irony intended, sold its soul to the devil -- not in an accusatory way, but to say that was a great mistake.  And her platform geared toward shifting this is always presented from the perspective of honoring the experiencer, the experience, the meaning of the matter -- and not the 'matter' of the meaning that empiricism is fixated upon.   I hope to facilitate seeing this article and many other works by Rhea White being made more accessible online soon.  Back to Rhea:

... One has to put one's I where one's mouth is.  Or one's mouth where one's I is.  I have had exceptional human experiences.  They have transported me -- catapulted me -- to the other shore.  From that shore the meaninglessness of experiments is evident.  I want to explore that new shore, but surely one can only do so by being there.  In a way, it is like the process of conversion in which one  makes a leap of faith and identifies with the tenets of a particular religion.  One makes that leap of faith after which, looking back, all the world is seen anew.  I think what we are seeing in the rise of reports of EHEs and the large-scale popular interest in them is the return of the sacred in the midst of daily life.  Each one is a call to transcendence, a call to perform a new identity.  We are called, at one time or another, to "do" transcendence, to accept our transcendent identity, and by the very act of doing it, to begin seeing things in a new way, and it is that new vision that may save our planet and legitimate parapsychology without a shot being fired or an experiment being run.  It only costs "not less than everything."  But whatever that "everything" is to you, it will be given back a hundredfold.

     As examples of the liberating quality of the confessional mode, Driver instances Alcoholics Anonymous, the gay and lesbian rights movement, the black movement, women's liberation, and the Native American movement.  In each case, liberation is experienced not by overthrowing the oppressors but by a process of performing what one is by confessing it, by being loyal to it and by privileging it.

     Karlis Osis provides support for this view in a review of Ring's Omega Project [regarding the fact that parapsychologists privilege 'evidence over personal meaning' in their investigative strategies.]  He notes that in his experience, "experients ... bristle at our equal treatment of trivial events and those that had impact on their lives.  Ring clearly sides with them.  He notes that when he teaches [about] NDEs to undergraduates, whatever data he presents to them does not change their reserve and skepticism, but when experients witness to the class, 'most of them from that point on don't need any further evidence that NDEs are real.'   Kenneth Kramer has gone even further by developing a text wherein the students do not see any presentation of parapsychological evidence, but instead they are required to go through many experiential practices throughout the semester.  Teachers have told me that the text is much loved and highly effective."

     It would seem that new agers are already involved in such a process, but they tend to fall back on theories such as "vibes" and "auras" to make sense of their experience.  In a sense, perhaps it doesn't matter how one explains it at the individual level, as long as it works for that person.  But as the group of people who have chosen (or been chosen) to investigate psychic experiences, [we] cannot fall back on that.  At the least, we need to conceptualize our subject matter in ways that are consonant with the ongoing conversation of Western civilization concerning the nature of reality, and this is by no means limited to empirical studies ...   Just as black are exploring all the ways black is beautiful, we should be exploring all the ways in which psi could possibly manifest as well as the dangers and pitfalls that may be involved in such a project, so we can assist persons who are just becoming aware of psi in their lives to understand what is happening to them and how they can best respond to it.  Our ability do to this rests on firsthand so-called subjective knowledge first and foremost.  For we ourselves are the subject of the experiment we are.

     I therefore suggest that we conceive of what we are doing in terms of studying psi, not investigating it.  The latter implies that we are working only with what is "out there," when in reality it is both inside and outside simultaneously.  I think the term study is preferable, because to study something involves looking at all sides, pondering it, holding it in one's gaze as one studies the face of one's beloved.  In essence, it involves letting oneself be moved toward one's subject matter and letting oneself be moved by one's subject matter, and one knows one is making progress in understanding when one can't tell whether what is happening is taking place inside our outside.  The boundary between self and world either has disappeared or has become deliciously blurred.  [**For our purposes here, again, think also in terms of 'EHE study groups.']

     ... Instead of staying at the level of the old paradigm that divides by setting one part of the population off from others, the battle is moved to another level where one expresses and even celebrates the authenticity of one's experience, knowing its truth and therefore experiencing its liberation beyond anything the oppressors can do.  EHEs are exceptional.  Once one takes the leap and confesses one's loyalty to them and acknowledges their existence in one's life, the question asked at the conservative level no longer matter.  Even if every EHE has a sensory base --  even a delusional base -- it would not diminish their performity if believed in.  Regardless of how they may be explained away, something exists where once there was nothing, and that something can change one's life in ways that hundreds of experiments do not.  Performity is what changes lives.  And the essence of life is change.  We all need to become more than we are, and the way to do it is by performing our individual projects [of transcendence].

          Wherever you see White addressing parapsychologists and how they might apply these ideas to their work, we can just as well imagine how we might meet similar needs in similar ways within the context of just-you-and-me folks in EHE-type study groups, which White finally addresses directly below.

     Parapsychologists' project is psychic experience.  They need not be psychic to study their project, but one has to be moved to engage in any project, whether it be beekeeping or hang gliding.  What EHEs do for us is signal to us where we should move next.  Because parapsychology is a group movement, then we should be those people in the world who work together by sharing their separate visions to discern the ways in which the field should be moving.

     An example of the way I suggest we should be doing this is the consciousness-raising groups held by women in the 1960s and 1970s.  They were liberating and enlightening.  Nelle Morton points out that women engaged in "hearing each other [in]to speech."  In [Montague] Ullman's dream-sharing groups, people listen each other's dreams into reality.  What we need are hundreds of grassroots EHE groups that would provide the opportunity for EHEs to be heard into reality, dwelt upon, heeded, permitted to change the experiencer's life and those of others as well.  This is how what we call reality recreates itself in everyone, but we have to live it out.  

          White talks about how the modern world [having gone through over 350 years with deterministic Western science] has long thought "Everything was considered to be mechanical and therefore ultimately predictable," and "You can't change human nature."  As we grew into and through adulthood, we were thought to grow set in our ways along a societally determined / accepted path that was pretty cut and dried, the objective being "the good life," which is materialistic.  The changing of self in the process and as a product of that process was thought to diminish steadily over the span of one's life.  But she continues, 

     In the postmodern view, everyone is in process, whether one knows it or not, but it is best to know it.  We are not here primarily to find contentment but to connect with what William James referred to as the "more" in human experience, to become connected to the more that we are.  And that is where Driver's confessional performance comes in. 

     The time has come for the exceptional human experiencers of the world to unite.  They have nothing to lose but their stigma.  Exceptional indicates they are already privileged.  While others are seeking the pot at the end of the rainbow, they are already in the rainbow.

          According to Driver, says White, confessional performance is about "self -actualization through self-recognition, world-recognition, and self-proclamation.  And one might add:  "world-proclamation."  "[In] the confessional mode," White continues to quote Driver, "selfhood is both personal and communal.  It is performance that insures that the confession does not refer solely, or even mainly, to the individual self.  As performance, the confession finds or perhaps makes, its community, so that the situation of the individual comes to be seen as something that the community shares, and the community is legitimated as the necessary complement of the individual."  

     [White:]  This is the road to take to legitimate psychic experiences, not the road of experiments.  Here we actually use and live what appears to be psi, not just distancing it "out there" so we can try to manipulate it.  It must manipulate us!  Driver says this can bring about " a heightened level of awareness ... a more existential type of performance ... in which members of human communities make known to each other, as best they can, the often veiled truths of their existence."  Certainly the truths about EHEs are little understood.  By confessing them to one another we may grow in understanding them.  To an extent, he says by this means we do even more than simply unveil truths.  We create the reality we require as we go.  That is how new things grow under the sun.   Driver emphasizes this.  He says:  "We are pressed to recognize here something even more intensive:  The performance of confessional truth is not only its disclosure but also its formation.  Confessional truth is not simply a known truth performed but also the transformation of a partial truth into a truth more fully formed.  Prior to its confession, such truth is not entirely true, only potentially true.  It becomes 'true' in the act of disclosure [italics added (by White)].  I am not what I am except insofar as I am what I say I am.  If I di not mean what I say, I am less than what I am.  If I do not mean to be what I do, I am less than nothing."

     And that, I submit, is why parapsychology [or any of us!] has stayed ona plateau for 50 years.  It lacks legitimation because it has not owned its experiences.  I deliberately did not say 'phenomena.'  What phenomena may publicly exist cannot be determined until we first legitimate ourselves.  Until we achieve the confessional mode, we cannot make the sort of determinations required to ask such a question.  We may find such questions cannot be profitably asked.  Or maybe they can.  The thing is -- from the near side of the chasm, such questions have no meaning.  When we go where the meaning is, such questions may no longer be needed.  It is too early to say.

     Thus, by entering the process the process changes us and our very circumstances.   ... We are not simply playing games with our ritual confessional performance.  Through our 'play' a new reality is being constructed and shared.  Many years ago Ira Progoff depicted just how this process could work regarding psi.  He attributed the increase in the reported incidence of psi experiences in the preceding 50 years to a change in the social atmosphere:

It activates the psychoid level with beliefs and expectations and provides a permissive atmosphere in which increasingly it has become socially acceptable for individuals to report their parapsychic experiences.

In previous decades, not only the reports but the experiences themselves were repressed.  Now the social atmosphere draws forth these experiences and is creating a cultural openness in which specifically parapsychic phenomena as well as the larger realm of synchronistic events as a whole can more freely be experienced, observed, and reported.  In this atmosphere also the capacity for this larger range of experience can be cultivated by specific techniques of training, as well as by an affirmative orientation to the experiences themselves.  By means of this, the quality of awareness in our culture as a whole will steadily be enlarged. ...

     Driver's view underwrites Progoff's vision by indicating how a billiard-ball effect can be initiated by people who are willing to share and perform their EHEs.  It is time to go inside the process.  Once we do, we will have the key to whatever we need to do next.  It seems to me that a major approach ... would be the development and production of rituals appropriate to our subject matter.  

           Germane to the idea of EHE study groups, there is a wealth of people and groups doing exactly this.  For example, John Heron's Sacred Science:   His work as a transpersonal psychologist is a sumptuous compliment to White's EHE process.  He is actively doing all that White has been conceptualizing in a more academic way and is a wizard at incorporating imagination, vast personal EHEerly familiarity, and ritual toward this very purpose.  Although each in their own inimitable way, the same thing could be said of David Spangler, one of the most remarkable seers / mystics / deeply wise human beings of our time.  So, "EHE study groups" are all over the planet and of course have been in one form or another for our entire human tenure on this Earth.  Any group or movement that has deeply engaged in furthering our understanding of these exceptional experiences, the nurturing of the EHE Process in essence have been pursuing what Rhea White has long envisioned as EHE study groups.  

          But what stands out about Rhea White's work is her special emphasis on our collective acknowledgement of 'all things EHE' as a timely and powerful universalizing of our mutual regard and awareness of this phenomenon and its implications for helping us to, as she puts it, "turn the corner" together, as a species, into a broadening and deepening of the ever-expanding potential of what it means to be Human.  

     

 

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Title of the above article:  

Exceptional Human Experiences as Vehicles of Grace:  Parapsychology, Faith, and the Outlier Mentality, IN:  Exceptional Human Experience:  Background Papers: I (The Exceptional Human Experience Network, Dix Hills, NY, 1994).

 

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Note:  Color highlights are R. Rocamora's, both for emphasis [usually rose pink] and to clarify who is talking [R. White -- orange; occasionally others she quotes in various colors; R. Rocamora -- green]

 

 

*** Also see:

 

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EHE Study Groups -- a continuation of Rhea White's envisioned work

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Inward Olympics article, re:  EHE study group idea

 

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Integrating, Applying, and Validating Our EHEs, also by White

 

4.

Rhea White's Project of Transcendence--and list of papers presently on this site and/or www.ehe.org

 

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A recommended book list specifically for group study.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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